Block

I am going out of order from my life stories, but I don’t think it matters too much as this is a story about dating.

Of course, I have again after not dating for a little while put my profile on a couple of sites. One of these sites has the woman making the first move after the guy has swiped and comes up as a match. I figure that this is a good concept that way I have some sort of control about the whole thing. I got very excited as I connected with a guy. I think he looks kinda hot and for over a week there was contact with him with phone calls, texts. Last weekend was a three day long weekend and I fully expected that I would most likely meet this guy over the long weekend. So far NO GO! (it’s Thursday now). He messaged me on Sunday and said he was would message me later, by the time Wednesday came I had heard nothing!!! I text him to say hi I hope everything is ok as I haven’t heard from you, this was sent at 11am (NO ANSWER). I then call him at 7pm, he then replies to this message with ‘hi sorry I missed your call, I am at my sisters and hopefully I will talk to you tomorrow night’……well guess what I haven’t bothered to respond to that BS answer. I tell you what the hell is wrong with him? I spoke to him four times, we discovered we like the same music and travelling, he seemed really keen and now cold as ice. Why are people bothering to go on dating sites when they aren’t serious? This is the million dollar question I would like answer to.

This now comes to my reason of calling this blog BLOCK, after being so pissed off about this other guy I put myself on another site that has a bit more action as far as messages go. I put it on last night and when I woke up this morning there were 22 messages from these kind of guys.

BLOCK HEADS

What a bunch of BLOCKHEADS, consequently as far as the 22 are concerned they are all BLOCKED!!! 90% are fake profiles, I can spot them a mile away, they are all from USA, wanting someone to marry, widowed such a cliche (don’t fall for that BS girls!).

Anyway after blocking all these blockheads, this afternoon I receive a message from a rather good looking guy who is an actual real guy. Anyway I know I should of been working but I was wasting time communicating with this guy, mind you he approached me so obviously liked the look of me. As the chatting is going along he then asks me do I have any other pictures, I tell this guy that I will have a look as I have only recently changed my hair colour. I then upload another picture of myself. He then responds with a statement about how he met a woman and when he met her she was size 24 and that on my profile I don’t say ‘what my body type is’, I do have it down as average, so obviously this douchebag can’t read as well as being shallow. I know I could do with losing a few kilos but I am certainly no size 24. I of course took great offence to this comment as my photos can clearly tell that I am not that size. Besides what the hell is the difference, if I am a good person why should it matter? I reply with ‘I am not size 24’ and guess what ‘haven’t heard from him again either!! But clearly he has been BLOCKED!!!

BLOCK my new favourite feature of the dating apps!!!

Happy dating out there with all the toads and timewasters.

As I am sure you can tell I am rather pissed off with these dumbarsed men!

The preference is definitely watching Netflix.

J xxx

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neverheardfromhimagain

I am a 50 something year old woman on the search for love and romance in an online world where romance is unheard of. There are many of us both men and women searching and without a sense of humour you will not survive! These are some of my stories of dating ....some are funny, some not so funny but I think we can all relate, let's enjoy this crazy journey together and share some laughs, tears and keep a thick skin you're gonna need it.

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  1. Maybe forget the good looking guys as they seem to be not real and think they are better then anyone.
    Look for a average guy with body size average and a great personality, I think you would do better. Cheers Jeff

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