I want to share with you all that I have been writing down these stories for at least the past three years even though this whole search has been going on for close to seven years! This is what I wrote initially with the idea of perhaps writing a book but I think for me who is definitely no writer doing this blog is a good way to get the story out. This was the original beginning of what I wrote so I guess I might as well put it out there.
Well where does one begin when suddenly finding yourself single again after many years of marriage in your 40’s.
I know the ‘internet’ surely there must be some decent normal guys out there!
I am here to tell you that most of them are still like juvenile horny teenagers’ men in their 50’s about time they grew up don’t you think?
This story comes from my experiences in the dating world they are all true and hopefully you will get as much of a belly laugh as I have because I tell you if I didn’t laugh, I would cry.
The pursuit of true love is a long road to travel and maybe will need to be travelled until I am in the nursing home. Unfortunately for me I actually like men and dislike them at the same time hence the continual search and why I probably will never give up.
With the discovery of cameras on phones well they have all become expert in photography especially of their most prized possessions and as for the videos well what a scream. My own private porno collection. I have enough of them to create a book as well as videos.
When I get yet another one of those pics, I think oh well here we go again seen one of those before they all start to look the same after a while and I think how about sending me a photo of the head on top of your shoulders?
**Don’t worry boys your secrets are safe; I am not about to embarrass anyone in that way.
The idea for writing this has come from my cousin who has probably not really wanted to be a sounding board we have had many a good laugh recounting the many times that I think I have met someone decent only then to never hear from him again without of course any explanation.
When I was speaking to her on Valentine’s Day about how the man in my life was more interested in putting a water feature in than spending the day with me or dinner the other stories came out again about how I was speaking to another one earlier in the year who seemed interested and said I quote ‘don’t be surprised to receive random calls’ only never to hear from him again either I laughed and laughed and she said you have to get started on that book write it all down and the catch cry of never heard from him again became the idea for the title.
This title says it all and to be fair, the title could also be ‘Never heard from ‘her’ again as it happens to men too. I think the problem for all of us is the internet is like a lolly shop too many to choose from so unless someone walks in that door who blows your mind you just go oh that one lost its flavour, I’m bored with the taste.
Never Heard From Him Again 